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Saturday, April 24, 2010

In Seach Of Heroes Matrimonial Heroes (Part One)

Just as our arrival at destination is tied to the supply of fuel, modify if we are travelling by a perfectly functioning vehicle, so are our destinies tied to the Heroes in our midst, modify though we seem to be doing well on the average.

Their absence from our interior is the reason for the reign of 'lack-lustre' mediocres on the throne of our private lives.

Heroes are the ones who stir up the innate virtues in us for success. They serve, not really as role models as many think, but as a beacon of greatness that rally us to plan for self-fulfilment and actualisation. (Afterall, many of us don't really want to be the exact copy of our heroes, we are rather content to know and always wager someone bearing the burden and impressive standard of societal aspirations).

The successes and triumphs of our Heroes are the loud voice that shut up the quiet wishpers of mockery, defeat and failures in our own lives.

The making of heroes begins, first, from the home: 'Matrimonial Heroes'. As a father or parent, have you ever felt the tremors of what doable future backlash it would be if you fail to wage or meet basic parental obligation to your innocent young ones? For how long do you conceive you can manipulate their innocence with fragile excuses for passing the buck?

The first, and not the least, hero of every female is the parent, but when a parent fails in the heroic responsibilities toward the child, it is only a matter of time before the ontogeny female 'switch' loyalty and consequently reshuffle his or her hero list. May we not be victims of much revolutionary change of a teenager's moral constitution.

How do you vindicate why a teenager would strap himself with a bomb to blow to modification and inspire other innocent people with him to the grave, without the slightest iota of foreknowledge or suspicion by the parents, that their teenager has sold-out to a completely strange doctrine and a tragic figure as his hero?

Yesterday's cursory symptom of 'matrimonial-hero-failure' has become a pandemic explosion today, threatening civility with babarism.

Take a careful and scholarly note of this; every nation that failed by every ramification and definition of that word, is a nation without a hero-model that can inspire to aspire. It is therefore formal for much a nation to begin to expire. In fact, a wise man once said that our success as a nation is mostly dependent on our personal or individual successes.

That is why the untimely modification or assasination of national heroes always communicate a mortal wound on the embody of much nations for a long time before healing, if at all, it heals.

Do you know that our heroes are also a product of other heroes? Hear out J. K. Rowling talking most Harry Potter: "...I didn't have to kibosh and conceive very hard most my hero."

This article is dedicated to her, who, though being a literate heroine of our time, refuse to be distracted by fame and phenomenon from being a matrimonial heroine to her three children and family. Happy birthday to J.K.R. who marks 40 today -31st July.

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